Tuesday, 14 November 2017

just stop asking la, can?!

Being twenty-sth year old in 2017 is not always easy.. This is the part of your life where plp xpect us to settle down and get married, buy a house and soon after have babies!!! Ugh!

Alhamdulillah, lucky for me I'm already happily married for nearly 5 years and living comfortably in our humble new house. The only thing now is plp tend to start asking us non-stop when we gonna start having babies?!

Myself and hubby know ya'all means well but seriously can ya'all just back off and stop asking us already?!  What if I say I'm actually ready to have a little one but my hubby completely against it?! Not everyone can handle kids expenses. Not everyone have lots $$$$ lying around. While some families manage to make it work,it'll always be a financial strain.

To be honest, looking at our situation right now, I tend to realized, amd seriosly think that we can't afford kids just yet. Plp can say whatever they want but they dunno anything about our financial situation, nor shd they tell us how to spend our money. 

At the end of the day, actually it's none of your business.. It really isn't. R u gg to help raise this future child of ours? R u gg to fund the kid n provide care and transportation? Probably Not! So please don't be a busybody and just stop asking already!

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